Jerk confidence

I had this the idea the other day, about confidence behaviour. Not entirely related to jerks, but that's the front aspect.

Some guy (I don't think I live in girl-jerk social networks) approaches you and starts chatting you up. Do you think 'Hey, this guy is great!'. Bzzzt! Wrong! This guy has confidence, heaps of it, and the ego to match it. You're his next mark. Notch. Whatever.

Notice that guy who gives you a couple of glances, maybe a smile, but doesn't come over and try to pick you up? While he doesn't have blistering confidence now, in the right setting, he'll try to date you. With confidence.

In a group of friends, and confidence guy is giving you heaps of attention? Chances are, he's either a jerk or he doesn't really want you. Again, the guy who doesn't give you the most attention? He wants you. Unfortunately, he's not in the right situation to give very obvious clues.

And that's my theory. Assume all above are single or polyamorous.

jerk aura

Through my social experiences, I theorise that jerks have an aura. This aura can be strong, overt, hidden, pathetic, all manner of things. But they smell of jerk. I hear that many women create inner jerk-dars for jerk detection. I think I have developed at least ranks in Sense Jerk. Maybe not the supernatural power.

Some jerks don't believe they are jerks.

Some jerks are so overt, their jerk aura perverts others. Sometimes even to the point the jerkness sticks and spreads further.

I have thus determined that attractive (to me) people become a lot less attractive within 30ft of a jerk with an overt jerk aura.

Want to attract that nice, kind, generous, rich, cute geek guy?
Keep a LONG way away from those sexy jerks. I know it's hard, but you must to keep the human race evolving.

Skill: Lovecraft, Rank 2, Bonus +1 CHA

Or something to the affect.

I've been in love before. I've fallen in love. I've lost love. I'm being continually burnt by love.
I beg for love. I need love. To give. To get. But, the move I give, the less I get? I wanted sunshine, but all I got was rain? Sometimes.

What was my point again? Oh yeah, lovecraft theories. No, not the author, the craft. Like spellcraft. Psicraft. Thus lovecraft.

Very attractive women get very aggressive when they lose their partners. This is because while they can be picky, they are picky and when the person they want the most suddenly doesn't want them, their world turns sideways and now they must fight! Perhaps this is why they practice being bitchy all the time.

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heh, never posted much here at all, ever

So anyway, after looking at Gavin's blog profile, I clicked on keyword like Dungeon & Dragons and didn't find myself.

Anyway, goto eolh.org ... my read blog.

what the?

Okay, I doubt very much I'll ever post here again. This is just to see how it works.